tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post6369377234844901610..comments2023-08-03T00:17:00.615-07:00Comments on Catie's Chaos: HurtCatiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08613382407867888635noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-26954383477172729912012-09-16T20:42:45.781-07:002012-09-16T20:42:45.781-07:00I've sooo been there. That's exactly how ...I've sooo been there. That's exactly how I found out that my ex-husband was cheating on me. I had a gut feeling but kept ignoring it until I saw some e-mails they had exchanged and then finally I listened to a message on his voice mail that she had left for him. <br /><br />I totally understand how you're feeling. It's normal to feel angry. I hope your husband realizes how much he's hurt you and that you can work through it until you get to a point where you can trust him completely again.<br /><br />I'm so sorry for what you're going through.Helenehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10743718606624231459noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-82550227546838191262012-09-13T14:01:18.353-07:002012-09-13T14:01:18.353-07:00Awww, thank you Ashley! I really appreciate it and...Awww, thank you Ashley! I really appreciate it and sending prayers your way as well!Catiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613382407867888635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-6828842095975769592012-09-12T16:58:51.631-07:002012-09-12T16:58:51.631-07:00Catie - my heart is hurting for you friend. I hav...Catie - my heart is hurting for you friend. I have been through this and am actually going through it again right now. You will get through this, you will. And my inbox is always open (ashleykrieger@gmail.com). Prayers for you! XOAshleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04003788806048785088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-56752569092175310492012-09-12T16:57:10.602-07:002012-09-12T16:57:10.602-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04003788806048785088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-70178089041107425192012-09-11T14:39:29.864-07:002012-09-11T14:39:29.864-07:00Thank you! I have definitely been doing a lot of p...Thank you! I have definitely been doing a lot of praying. I am so glad that things worked out for you and I hope that they will for me also. <br /><br />Catiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613382407867888635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-43929669941611632902012-09-11T08:06:01.556-07:002012-09-11T08:06:01.556-07:00I was scared too, and I thought about leaving. But...I was scared too, and I thought about leaving. But truthfully I don't think I was strong enough too, maybe it was God not giving me the strength because he wanted me to stay. I totally agree though, once is more than enough, I definitely couldn't do it again, but I truly don't think I will need too. Praying for you for clarity in dealing with this situation in the best way for you and the kids HickChickBritthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07870234910908607089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-64716419694717553982012-09-11T08:01:23.446-07:002012-09-11T08:01:23.446-07:00That is good to hear. I do love him and I hope we ...That is good to hear. I do love him and I hope we can get past this. I'm honestly just scared. Scared that if i will get hurt again b/c I know I can't live through this again. I hope we can come out stronger and closer after all this drama.Catiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613382407867888635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-33887681868418744272012-09-11T07:32:30.743-07:002012-09-11T07:32:30.743-07:00Oh sweetie, I am so sorry. My husband and I went t...Oh sweetie, I am so sorry. My husband and I went through something similar to this. He never actually cheated, but he did and said somethings that a husband should not say to another woman. The crazy thing about it all, is I thought I would never get over it. The amazing thing is it made us 100 times stronger. I let go of the past and focused on our future. Now our marriage has never been better, I have forgiven(not forgotten). I don't know what your plan is, but I trusted my heart and knew that he had made a mistake. I don't take any blame or blame anything else except his extreme lack of good judgement. Anyway we were able to work through it, and I am so glad we did. Our love and marriage is now what I always dreamed about. Take care, and know that it will get easier and it can be fixed.HickChickBritthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07870234910908607089noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-19464913683524145752012-09-11T05:13:35.742-07:002012-09-11T05:13:35.742-07:00Thank you sweet friend!Thank you sweet friend!Catiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613382407867888635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-89287138244680392292012-09-11T05:12:24.896-07:002012-09-11T05:12:24.896-07:00Thank you so much. Thank you so much. Catiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613382407867888635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-17741458049152801002012-09-10T20:51:35.164-07:002012-09-10T20:51:35.164-07:00Oh my beautiful, sweet, wonderful Catie. My stoma...Oh my beautiful, sweet, wonderful Catie. My stomach sank as I read this and I am sending fast & furious prayers your way. Mariannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04509329937576764550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-47250138095191585742012-09-10T19:32:32.204-07:002012-09-10T19:32:32.204-07:00Praying for you and your family. I can't imagi...Praying for you and your family. I can't imagine what you are going through and hate to see anyone in so much pain. I hope you come out better and stronger in the other side of all this![dianegatorfan]https://www.blogger.com/profile/17300543590727130260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-26081651669402793842012-09-10T18:24:47.044-07:002012-09-10T18:24:47.044-07:00Praying for you and your kids. All I can say is l...Praying for you and your kids. All I can say is let go and let God have control of this situation.Angie R.https://www.blogger.com/profile/01867753067217359977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-85602505800058625242012-09-10T16:27:16.730-07:002012-09-10T16:27:16.730-07:00As someone who has gone trough this, I'm sorry...As someone who has gone trough this, I'm sorry to say you will never forget. You are right in writing that. I also understand not wanting to go on. But you can do it, it'll be the hardest thing ever.<br />BUT if you want to still e with him then you guys can figure it out. Everyone told me to go to couples counseling....we didn't, some days I wish we had, some days we are doing ok without. <br />He will HAVE to understand that it's going to take FOREVER for you to let your guard down, to trust him, to open up. It happened to me while pregnant, now we are talking about baby #2 And that experience is all I can think about. It's terrifying. <br />I hated reading this and my heart breaks for you. Do what's best for you and your kids!! You can get through this day by day, hour by hour. Just know your not alone.Saying prayers for you too! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-18293893117774944302012-09-10T13:18:15.241-07:002012-09-10T13:18:15.241-07:00Thank you, Laura. This is truly the hardest thing ...Thank you, Laura. This is truly the hardest thing I've gone through. I appreciate the prayers!Catiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613382407867888635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-27069429761565051352012-09-10T11:34:14.706-07:002012-09-10T11:34:14.706-07:00I hate that you're going through this. I'l...I hate that you're going through this. I'll be praying for y'all! Don't settle for less than what you deserve!Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11827364328769026492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-18647162925579876422012-09-10T11:14:26.586-07:002012-09-10T11:14:26.586-07:00You are so sweet. Thank you!You are so sweet. Thank you!Catiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613382407867888635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-45053921645219742842012-09-10T10:45:58.381-07:002012-09-10T10:45:58.381-07:00Thinking about you sweet friend. Praying for you &...Thinking about you sweet friend. Praying for you & your kids. Praying you can find the strength to be strong for them and do what is best for you and your family. Always remember that you are worthy! Never doubt that for a second! Lynseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06189462045409544574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-69782397585069961252012-09-10T09:56:50.637-07:002012-09-10T09:56:50.637-07:00Thank you, Danielle. I really appreciate your swee...Thank you, Danielle. I really appreciate your sweet words.Catiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613382407867888635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-77837660651929541192012-09-10T09:55:35.942-07:002012-09-10T09:55:35.942-07:00Thank you! I really appreciate it.Thank you! I really appreciate it.Catiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613382407867888635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-79349624566654890952012-09-10T09:54:55.227-07:002012-09-10T09:54:55.227-07:00Thank you so much!Thank you so much!Catiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08613382407867888635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-70677399893259230962012-09-10T09:04:57.097-07:002012-09-10T09:04:57.097-07:00As I kept reading, I was trying to think of some w...As I kept reading, I was trying to think of some words of encouragement that would ease your pain. All I can tell you is that you are a worthy person. A person who deserves to be loved whole-heartily. I know this ride will be bumpy but I'll be praying for God to show you the right path. Hang in there!Daniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06885761870362457252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-26655696683318844982012-09-10T06:15:22.281-07:002012-09-10T06:15:22.281-07:00Oh sweet girl. I am thinking of you and hoping tha...Oh sweet girl. I am thinking of you and hoping that you find the strength that you need to do what is right for you and your family. I am so sorry. KatiePerkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07187422288529762616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7293887354638449081.post-10427333141753044292012-09-09T21:28:55.940-07:002012-09-09T21:28:55.940-07:00O my gosh, I am SO sorry. My heart hurts for you. ...O my gosh, I am SO sorry. My heart hurts for you. I will be praying for some peace for you as you sort this situation out!Kate @ Daffodilshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11014407841272156153noreply@blogger.com